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Notes from Madurai.

Writing from the team — on community matrimony, the small decisions inside the product, the city we work in, and what the verification queue is teaching us. Roughly twice a month, never on a schedule.

Madurai temple gopuram at sunset
Founder essay·14 min read

Why we still verify every profile by hand.

Two years and 3,200 profiles in, we still review the ambiguous 8% manually — in our Madurai office, two people on every flag. Here's why we won't outsource the queue, and why automating the last mile would make the platform worse, not better.

DGDevanand Govindarajan · 12 May 2026

Recent notes

14 notes · 2024–26
Product·7 min read

The Family Council, one year later — what we got right, what we'd change.

The Council has been the most-loved feature, and the source of nearly every difficult decision the team makes. Here's how it has evolved.

Priya Sundaram · 28 Apr 2026
Community·5 min read

What the gothram dropdown taught us about every other field.

We had to build the Sourashtra gothram list ourselves. The exercise of writing it down — and listening to the corrections — changed how we approach every field.

Karthik Subramani · 16 Apr 2026
Trust & safety·9 min read

Why we don't sell coins, and what we tried first.

Eight weeks of an in-app currency told us everything we needed to know about engagement-vs-decision incentives. The post-mortem, with screenshots.

Devanand Govindarajan · 02 Apr 2026
Stories·6 min read

Eighty-six weddings — a count we never thought we'd hit.

Two years in, almost a hundred weddings have started here. We sat down with three couples to ask what worked, and what was hard.

Priya Sundaram · 18 Mar 2026
Engineering·11 min read

How we shipped a bilingual product without a translation team.

Sourashtra, Tamil, English — three interfaces, one codebase, almost no translation budget. The patterns we found, and the ones we wish we'd found earlier.

Bhavana Iyer · 04 Mar 2026
Madurai·4 min read

A walk from the office to the temple.

Half a kilometre, eleven minutes, four chai stops. A short note about why we sit where we sit, and why we plan to keep sitting there.

Devanand Govindarajan · 14 Feb 2026
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